Husband does want sex anymore

It use to be great. Now it is non existent. For over a year it has been once a month if I'm lucky and it's bad!

We have been together for over 20 years. In the last 5 years I have noticed he hasn't been that up for it. Then this last year has been shocking. He struggled with getting a hard on, or if he did he couldn't sustain it. He says it's the pressures of work. Even with help of viagra it was just a half hearted session that didn't last long. He has left that job that he said was stressing him out and has a new one, things are no different. He just doesn't seem to want it or have any passion. He said its not me and he still wants to be with me. He has recently gone to the gp, for tests. Awaiting results.

It is just making me feel rubbish, not sure how much more I can take, being intimate and having regular sex is important to me.