Body Counts

So I’ve been having trouble with something lately and I don’t know how to handle it.

I recently got into a new relationship this year. This relationship has been going incredibly well and both of us see marriage within the next year or so.

However lately my insecurities have breached the surface. I would like to preface this by saying that prior to this relationship, I was in a 6 year relationship where we were both each other’s “first”. My personal convictions are that sex is something that is so incredibly special and meaningful to me. That’s why I really only ever wanted to share it with someone special. When we broke up I only ever slept with one other person before the guy I’m currently with now.

We’ve been dating for about 8 months now. But lately I’ve been finding out a list of more and more of his past exes just through casual conversations. And I guess I’ve just been started to get concerned and really worried about the number of people he has slept with. It’s not so much a jealousy, it’s more a feeling of insecurity and that I won’t live up to past experiences. I want to talk to him about my feelings but I just don’t know how to bring it up? Or if I even should?

Any advice ladies?