How do you guys deal with annoying relatives from your husband’s side? They keep on interfering with annoying questions! Questions I have no answers to like why are we not planning for a baby? Now is the time to plan a baby. What’s holding you back? What gives them the right to question us like that. My husband says he does not mind but these things make me sleepless. We have been married for 5 years. I am 34 and we have been trying for past 5 months. I am already depressed and now they tell my husband that I am getting old and loosing time.