My neighbor's daughter (18) has a crush on my son (16) They talk alot, pretty much every day. They go to different schools. Yesterday she asked me for help with her mandarin skills (we are Taiwanese and she is white) and she asked me if I would help her write a letter to him in Mandarin. I told her I'd help her out this weekend but I was honestly meaning to say no. I just think he's too young for dating right now. And 16 year olds are hormonal, I won't be able to watch him every second. They could have sex or something. I don't know, should I help the kid out?