Birthday trip

My husband "planned" a birthday trip for me as my birthday last year was ignored due to weather and covid.

Except I have to do all the work. Figure put a place for our dogs, pack, clean the house, laundry, ect. He is expecting to hop in the car tomorrow and have everything ready to go.

I have to work extra late tonight so I can take off early tomorrow and yet he is saying that I should take the dogs to my parents tonight... how am I supposed to be in two places at once?

He is normally a loving, sweet man but I am so irritated at him right now. And if I bring it up to him he will either whine while helping me or say that I'm stressing too much.

He is a hard working man, just thinks that the house is my responsibly b/c he brings in the majority of the income.

Grrrrr....