Was I wrong for getting upset?

I was venting to my husband tonight about our 3 year old daughter. She’s been pushing buttons lately to test her boundaries to see how much she can get away with & it’s getting hard. I told him I feel like a bad mom because it seems like all I do is yell at her because she’s being so naughty & his response was getting irritated & going “then just get rid of her. Just put her up for adoption”.

I immediately went off on him. I told him I couldn’t believe that had just come out of his mouth & that I would never ever put her up for adoption just because she’s going through the “terrible-3’s”.

This caused him to get even more irritated & he said I was overreacting. We ended getting in a (verbal) fight & now I feel even more like shit because I can’t even talk to the one person who was supposed to understand...

Did I overreact?