For over a year the man I'm with has abused me. He turns everything around like it's my fault or he downplays the truth. Even when he is called out in a lie he still can not tell the truth. I'm always catering to this man. I don't feel like his wife, I feel like a slave. ( He always telling why did we get married, I need to learn to control my emotions. Nagging me about the way I clean or if I forget to do onething how the yelling and belittling me starts.) He can not have one conversation when he is not yelling at me. I'm not allowed to express my options ( it's his way or no way) ( he tells me I'm jealous over his dogs but yet he shows the dogs way more attention and affection. He would rather cuddle up with his dogs instead of his wife)he goes on to tell me he drinks one beer to relax, (am I not enough for his to come home to realx and cuddle with me?)