Mama’s YOUR life experience after having your 1st Baby!

Hi Mom’s! I’m a FTM, expecting my first baby at 33yrs old. I waited a long time bc I always wanted the perfect scenario for when I became pregnant. I also (and this may sound selfish) but was intimidating at the fact of being responsible for another little person for the rest of my life.

I’m the type of person that takes forever getting ready, needs to sleep or I feel mentally exhausted which leads to making me moody. I Enjoys taking care of myself, alone time but I also enjoy friendships and social gatherings but I find I need my alone breaks to revamp and sync with my inner self otherwise I get anxious and not like myself. I also had a friend tell me that they went through an identity crisis after they had their first baby. (I’m currently feeling that way bc my body has changed so much 😢). I know I’m a bit weird lol I guess, I’m the in between of an extrovert and introvert. I know having a baby I will have a little buddy for life which is Awesome😍 but I guess I’m trying too see if there was anyone out there similar to me and what there experience was like after having their first baby?? Oh and I’m 25 weeks today! I’m getting closer so I’m feeling anxious a bit of how my life is about to change.

Thank you sweet mamas! 💓💓💓