How fast is too fast?

Question

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend in January. I’ve been working on myself since, staying in prayer, practicing yoga, I feel so free ! Like extremely free. I have a question though, do you think me wanting to date is too fast? I’m interested in a couple of people & I want to date. Should I? Do you feel it’s based on me?

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Its only too fast if you didnt self reflect on what went wrong, what you allowed that you shouldnt, what you yourself need to fix to be a good partner etc.
   I also think every wimen needs to learn to date properly. They should focus on the right qualities a man should hv versus superficial qualities. This includes looking at a man and his life and studying his ways. What are his career goals and how is he working towards that? Does he have drama or baggage including: baby mama, multiple kids, bad habits drinking too much, smoking, drugs, not paying his bills or being reaponsible? How does he treat others? How does he treat you? How does he hndle conflict? How does he manage hiself when he is angry with u and others? Is he responsible in life? Is he mentally emotionally and spiritually available? Does he want the same things in life you want? I suggest all women read premarriage counceling questions online to help them date i tentionally and avoid in getting attached to a partner who can not or does not give u wht you need and want. 
    Also study what a healthy relationship entails. I suggest reading relationship books that u can get cheap at thrifr stores. Treat dating like one of the most critical and biggest decisions youll make in your life. Why? Because u determining what your future will look like. Youre determining if u gonna be downtrodden, abandoned, mistreated. Youre determining your childrens future and if u gonna live a life of abuse and struggle or ....... love, support, and joy. Its important. Look up toxic behaviors and traits to watch out for. 
     For myself i knew i wanted a financially secure man who cpuld support a family on one income. Why? Having that peace of mind is important to me. I want to be able to stay home with my kids until they can talk. I dont want to stress about bills etc. So i dated accordingly. Date for the type of future u want. Date for mental physical emotional spiritual and financial support. Dont just make a guy your bf because of good companionship or he “makes u feel good.” Do your dating homework and understand it takes more than love to have a long term healthy commited relationship.

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Do what feels right no matter the timing.

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You do what feels right

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Yeah it's based on you.
But you might lose that free feeling! Such is life. I go back & forth, in & out if relationships. Lol

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do when you’re ready. i started dating my fiancé like 3 months after i broke up with my ex

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Suzane venker ia good source to learn from

Johm gray is good source to learn from. He wrote men are from mars and women from venus. 
Also Asha C on youtube gives some good dating pointers.

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