Single Mom

My bf (28) is planning on rejoining the military because he believes it’s the best way to provide for our baby. However, I grew up on these islands my whole life, I have all my family and his family on this island as well. An amazing support system and a career to support our baby. There really is no need for him to join the military. He knows that if he joins, that I’m not following and that he will not be a big part of our daughters life due to his military-duties. However, he’s putting me between this position of choosing my life/support system here or him. And honestly I’m completely distraught between both choices.