Am I over exaggerating ?

TW : Sexual assault

I over heard my brother talking to his friends and they were talking about women and undermining the sexual assault that most women go through. They said that men actually experience more sexual assault bc of prison (literally what? worms for brains) and it really upset me. I had to hold my tears in and I was shaking and it really upset me to hear my own brother and his friends who I thought were good people talking about women like that. It sucks being afraid of walking alone and being scared of men coming near you and they’ll never understand that. I don’t know how I’ll ever be able to trust a man intimately. And I feel guilty because I feel like I don’t have a right to be upset or I’m over exaggerating because I’ve never had anything serious regarding sexual assault happening to me. My brother and I don’t have a good relationship at all. I don’t like being near him at all. Do I have a right to be upset? What should I do? I’m sorry, I’m just so upset.