Advice from a fellow momma

Ok so mommas who may be expecting their first or 20th child whatever the case may be I just have a little reminder for you.

In 40 weeks plus or minus you have conceived grown and birthed a life pr even multiple lives into this world.

Your body and mind have gone through some enormous changes. Be gentle with yourself. It took 9 months for your body to change so if you dont look like your old self immediately that's ok.

If you dont ever look the same again THATS OK. You wont ever be the same again. Your life isnt the same any more. But that's ok. It's ok if you feel saddened by this. It's ok if it's not what you envisioned. You have accomplished an incredible feat! You've become a mother.

If someone runs a marathon those at the end dont comment on their exhaustion or their looks. They congratulate them on their accomplishment and care for their needs. Let's treat one another this way as that each and every mother has accomplished a great feat and need congratulating encouragement and to have their needs readily met.