No trust in a relationship

So me and my bf have a child together, he acts as a child to my 5 year old as well. We have been working on moving in together but I think lately we have been getting on each other nerves I guess. He does not trust me and I’m personally sick of it. It’s always something on Facebook, it’s always something about dudes liking my photos. I have almost 5,000 friends on fb, I had that same page since high school. Everyone who comments on my pics/likes my pictures I do not know. If a dude comments on my pictures I ignore them. He tries to argue with me because I don’t curse them out. Which makes no sense, like what if I see this person in real life people are crazy so why would I argue with them publicly at that so other people can get involved then it’s a Facebook battle. If it’s not Facebook it’s about my clothes he wants me to wear sweatpants and big shirts all the time. I’m a girly I like cute clothes, pumps, jewelry, makeup and leggings. I’m 25 I’m not going to dress like I’m 65. If it’s not about my clothes it’s my hair, my natural hair is long and thick but I hate it, so I wear wigs and extensions. That’s a problem my natural hair takes too long to style and too many hair products at once. I feel like I should be able to be who I am and you should except it, I’m tired of getting accused of stuff. It’s starting to make me wonder about him. What should I do?