I just need to VENT!!!

My husband and I have been together for 9 years.

He is obsessed with having a 3way with another guy (which I’ve done before with him) but now that’s all he talks about.

We can’t even have sex without him bringing up the topic of another guy with us. He says it’s more pleasure for me but I’m at my limits.

I’ve told him repeatedly that I am not comfortable with it anymore and that he needs to respect my boundaries but he shuts down and stops talking to me.

GAH!!!