Husband always tired too

I am 28 weeks pregnant with twins and I have a 2.5 year old. I work 44 hours a week and I am always tired! I come home, help my husband with dinner, do laundry. I try to slip away to bed early because I have to get up at 3:45 am for work. But my husband usually has some excuse or wants us all to hang out together as a family. My husband works 36 hours a week. He is always complaining about his job. Coming home early and complaining he is tired! Today he came home 2 hours early and went to sleep! It’s now 5:30. He’s been sleeping like 2.5-3 hours. I just woke him up. Asked him if he was in bed for the night or coming downstairs with our son and I. He said he was getting up. But he hasn’t. It’s just so frustrating. I am tired too! And we have to clean and organize before these babies come. Today I asked him his plan and he said we have time. Urg. Neither of us have very physically demanding jobs.