Is it normal that I don’t want to see him again after this?

Question

Fancied a guy for months, it was going really well, lovely personality. Finally it got flirty with me and him and he came back to mine, but when I gave him a blow job his penis kinda smelt all sweaty. It wasn’t a sexy smell at all, and then it was really short but a wide penis, and he kept getting soft. I turned down sex, and he told me I’m weird that I got so into it then completely turned off. I often get turned off during sex with men and I don’t know if I’m normal in that way

Answer

Maybe he was not expecting sex and was not prepared. Maybe your bj was boring. Maybe he was nervous with the situation. But in any case, if you are not into it, you are not into it and that's it. The result of the same, no more sex and like goes on.

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You are allowed to change your mind at any point for any reason- it’s one of the basic tenants of consent! If he made you feel uncomfortable or you weren’t into him or whatever than it’s completely okay not to see him again. Just let him know- a text or call is fine- why you don’t want to continue so you don’t ghost him ( which can make thing confusing or hurt ppls feelings)

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Kinda rude tbh to just leave him like that like maybe he's a virgin or new to sex and all. But I understand if you got turned off and want to leave dear. But I hope you explain when you leave hin

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he sounds like a douche, i wouldn’t see him again

Is it normal that I don’t want to see him again after this?

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