I feel stupid?

I don’t know if this is normal or not.. but I feel so stupid around my bf sometimes..

He’ll say I’m a child and he tells me what to do..

It will be for small things like.. if I have to phone a company and I’ve already done it but haven’t done it up to his standard or haven’t asked for money off a certain bill or something he’ll be annoyed.

Or I’m having doubts of having my second dose vaccine, just because of the news I’ve heard I’ll probably have it but I suffer with anxiety so I just need to warm up to the idea and he says I’m lazy and I can’t be bothered to do a lot of things, when I explained it’s just because I’m thinking about it

He replied “you’re a child, I’ll be glad not to tell you what to do”