Feeling like a beached whale

Im feeling like a beached whale lately. Nothing is fitting right and even my bigger shrits dont feel like they fit me right. Im already a bigger chested woman and being preggers dont help at all. Just kinda wish my boyfriend could go through the joys of being prego gaining the weight having nothing to fit into feelng like how I feel. Having everything just wacked the h*** out. Hurting every where. Cramping all the time like time of the month cramps. Like the guys dont have to deal with any of this stuff and they are just as guilty in the sin of eating off the tree that was forbinden to human kind. So u do us woman have to suffer all the time?