Baby name rant

I just need to get this out...it’s incredibly irritating to have someone close to you naming their child the same thing as what you’ve chosen!!!!! I don’t have rights over names but my GOD it’s just irritating! Especially when they put you down and say the name you’ve chosen “is a black name” and they are shocked I even chose it!!!! I just wanted to have my special time and not have someone else choose the same name or be put down over the name! Rant over, thank you.