I find it hard to trust and respect men

I like hanging out with guys have lots of friends and colleagues. I know im fine with respecting men who are friends or collegues but when it comes to relationships I have 0 respect for men. I'm single if you couldn't tell. I've had a useless baby father and a string of bad relationships. That on top of my dad treating my mother like shit and seeing her have a mental breakdown after finding out he had a secret family. I just don't know where to go from here I want a relationship but I just feel like ill be headed to dissapaointment and Ive come to the realisation that I have 0 respect for anyone in terms of trust and relationships. I feel really stuck in a rut. Advice please. Has anyone gotten over toxic families and relationships?