How would you feel / react

Last night, my boyfriend and I were messing around and he said “give me a blowjob or we aren’t having sex” and I reminded him I have a few canker-sores so it would hurt me and he said “ok then we’re not having sex” and rolled over to his side of the bed and I was like “ok then”.

I’m gonna be honest, I don’t see a need for there to be ultimatums around sex so this just rubbed me the wrong way. It just kinda made me feel like an object.

He also gets canker-sores and I have NEVER even thought about saying something like that to him.

When I told him how I felt about the situation, it just turned into a huge argument that it didn’t need to be. I was just trying to have a constructive conversation and he just kinda blew up.

Idk what to really do because I’ve never been in this situation. I just wanna see how other ladies on here would feel if they were in the same situation.