Bf never listens to me.

I’m tired of repeating myself with my bf. Sometimes it feels like I’m talking to a rock tbh. Lately I’ve been feeling like I need more attention and time with my bf. We live about 1 hour apart and usually only see each other once in the weekend. He works in my city and he used to come see me after work maybe at least once during the week. But lately maybe this passed month or 2 he stopped doing that. Ive been the one making the drive to see him at least once during the week. He sort of doesn’t call me as often anymore. He calls me in the morning and on his lunch but once he’s off work he doesn’t give me a call. I give him a call sometimes on his way home or before bed but it’s starting to feel like it’s always just me calling and never him. I expressed to him nicely that I miss him coming to see me after work and I would like for him to put in more effort in calling me instead of me calling him. He expressed to me that he hasn’t had the chance to come after work because he has to pick up his sister from soccer practice so he has to go home right away. And that he’ll try to give me more attention and try to see me after work whenever someone at home isn’t working and can pick up his sister instead of him. So time goes on and I honestly don’t see any change. So last night again I tell him how I feel and he tells me that he’ll see me tomorrow(today) since his sister isn’t working and can pick up his little sister. So today after work I’m sort of left waiting for a text of him on his way or a call and nothing. So I call him and ask if he’s still coming over and he said “did I say that last night? Oh sorry I forgot. Yeah I can’t see u. Steph(his sister) made food for me”. So this angered me because 1. He left me hanging. And 2. OVER SOME FOOD! When he heard that I was angry he blew up on me and started playing the “I can never do anything right” and the “you’re never happy with me” card. And I was over this because he always says this. I’m so bothered by this because whenever he expresses a concern about me or he wants me to put in more effort into different parts in our relationship I listen take it in and I fix or implement a change with no complaints right away. But whenever I voice a concern it’s always goes in one ear and out the other or he gets defensive and plays the woes me card the “I’m such a bad bf” or the “why can’t I make u happy” card. I’m deadass not asking for much and he makes me feel like shit for asking or makes me feel like a job. Some of u might say he’s cheating on me but I would like to say that I don’t think that’s the case. I’ve haven’t had any suspicions and I can honestly say my cheating radar is pretty good. Sadly it hasn’t let me down yet. Lol