Idk anymore honestly

I recently posted how my boyfriend believes I’m not putting any effort to the relationship because I’m seeing him less. I been with him for a year and 5 months. I use to have a full time job weekends off with a set schedule so I’ll see him everyday. I decided to go back to school as a full time student. I tried full time job and school. It was a lot because I had time to workout and see my boyfriend had have my me time. So I decided to leave. He told me he would pay my bills. So I didn’t work in the beginning. I realized he started to complain that he’s doing everything on his own it’s a lot for him. He wouldn’t tell me directly but he would say little things like how less money he has and etc. How we need to cut back because he’s paying for everything. Little did he know I was already applying for places because I love to work and make my own money. It was just hard finding a job because the pandemic. I found a job a month ago. I’m two months in this job. I’m always closing I told them I want 30 hours and less because of school. I’m working 35 hours working full shifts I only have a day off. Balancing school work time for my self care and my boyfriend is becoming difficult. Yesterday he mentioned how he can’t take this anymore. He doesn’t believe im making any effort but I am. I’m trying to see him but he says no to weekdays because he’s tired. Weekends he sleeps in by the time he wakes up I’m at work already closing that day. He says he’s not happy if this keeps up he doesn’t know if he can do it. I mentioned to him this a small problem thats fixable btw. Yes we are constantly arguing more because you get bothered by anything now. I’m trying to find a solution but you just keep bringing up the problem. I was trying to work something out here. Anyways he brought up he’s frustrated at me because I didn’t let him pay my bills. He’s mad that I wanted to work. I mentioned that last time he told me He’s glad that I don’t want to be a housewife because he sees at his house how his dad brings in all the money. His mom just stays home be a housewife but he can tell his dad gets a little frustrated because nothing gets done. She just go to Starbucks and goes shopping with her mom. His dad comes home exhausted from a long shift. His father is a cop so he makes good money but everything they are trying to save when he retires is a lot just for one person. They have to budget themselves a lot. Beside that point i mentioned to him how do you not want me to be a housewife but not want me to work rn. He mentioned because it’s just rn you’re going to school. I was like yes but what if later on I mentioned how you did it when I was young why can’t he do it now. Be lucky I don’t ask for your money be lucky how I love to work I want to make my own. He brought up to let him pay my bills he will send me money because he knows I would need things as well. I told him no I want to work. He left frustrated. I just don’t know what to do 🤦🏽‍♀️ because yes it’s difficult to see him now. I want this to work but he needs to realize I want to make my own money. This a little problem compare to what real life would bring us. I also mentioned how in the future as a nurse I would be working like long hours. You would hardly see me. Only to sleep probably he mentioned so I would see you atleast. Idk 🤷🏽‍♀️ maybe I’m wrong.

Sorry this is extremely long. I explained things longer than they should be 🤦🏽‍♀️🙃