Overly nervous nit picky SO

Anyone else have a husband or significant other that is really nervous on the solids/foods front.

My husband seems to be really off with this stuff and I’m trying foods for her that are safe and a couple times he’s been passive aggressive about some things. Like my 7 month old taking a sip of my water out of the straw, or I gave her a bite of my salmon at a restaurant for lunch and he said he wouldn’t give her restaurant food only food cooked at home. There’s been a couple others that just make me feel like he’s nit picking what I do.

I’m just like .... wait what?

I wonder if he just really doesn’t know what’s going on or has an understanding of foods/solids and it’s coming out in a not very nice way? I almost want to say if you can find any evidence that says this is not ok than great otherwise chill tf out. Gosh I am hoping someone else is going through this and has some words of wisdom.