Becoming upset that husband sleeps longer and goes to friends everyday

My husband sleeps longer than LO, he occasionally wakes up to make a bottle. Than I feed rock and put lo back to bed. He than goes to his friends at least 5/7 days a week to hangout or work out. He is off work for 8 weeks for bonding. I’m trying not to become bitter or be upset. I just want more help and a little time for myself.

And yes I do talk to him about how I feel, he just doesn’t think he needs to limit what he does. How are others handling parenting.