Should I switch practices completely? 🥲

I don’t know if this is a dumb question or not. I’m 24, my husband and I are TTC. I don’t like my gynecologist. I’ve seen her since I was 19, she has physically hurt me and she’s rude as hell. She’s never done a pelvic exam on me (which is weird? But thank god..) I had a BC implant for three years, which was inserted and handled so aggressively by my doctor, it healed crooked (one corner inward poking muscle) and I guess it also became covered in thick scar tissue over time, which is why it took so long to remove, and why THAT was so painful, too. The fuckin thing came out curved. She insulted my next choice of BC, minipill, switched right away feb 2020. She also said “don’t be surprised if I see you for a surprise pregnancy visit in a few months.” 🤔

So now that we decided to start trying, I’ve been looking into her online and it’s not just me. She’s got multiple complaints about her bedside manner, she’s just insensitive and rude.

But the practice itself, the group of doctors she’s part of is great! My mom sees an awesome dr there, so many friends of mine have had amazing experiences with other drs in the group. But apparently when you’re pregnant you have to meet allll the doctors anyway, because god forbid something happens, any one of them can end up delivering your baby if your doctor can’t.

Even a slim chance of her being able to have anything to do with me or my future baby makes me uncomfortable.

I’m not sure how likely that is though, or if it’s even possible for me to call the office and let them know I’ve had a few bad experiences with her and don’t want to see her?

I found a completely different practice that looks promising and takes my insurance, I just don’t know anyone who has personally been there.

I don’t know if I should change doctors or completely switch practices?