Bros before hoes? UPDATE
My boyfriend has started ditching me for his best friend.
This past weekend, we had made plans for hun to come to my plans for a little Memorial Day dinner, nothing big but he didn’t have plans. I live at home so it would be with my family.
That morning he texts me saying his best friends is throwing a cookout at noon and he’s going.
Keep in mind his best friend is his neighbor, and actually is about 100 feet from his front door, pretty damn close.
In January we had mad plans for his birthday, every year he goes to the state far with his family and he invited me for the weekend.
Yesterday he told me Fast Horse, a music festival like Coachella, is that weekend, and he will be going to that instead with his buddy’s. and no, I was not invited, infact, he said he would probably ditch me if I went.
He’s gone to this festival for a few years and wasn’t planning to go, but two of his friends won tickets, just 2, and theres 6 of them.
He plans to drink all three days and over all it makes me very uncomfortable and feel like I’m second fiddle.
I’m 22, he’s 24, and we have been dating almost 8 months.
I don’t want to tell him he can’t go, it’s his birth weekend and he enjoys it, but the idea of my boyfriend drinking 3 days straight with no contact with me surrounded by a bunch of other drunk people doesn’t sit well with me.
I’ve been cheated on a bunch in the past by exes and yes, that does slightly okay into my issues.
Would this bug anyone else?
UPDATE:
I’m going to speak with him tonight, I know he means no malice, he just doesn’t see it as an issue. I know once I bring it up to him we can work through it.
UPDATE:
We talked, he had planned for us to go the following weekend, he had thought he had already told me. We are also going to another fair this month as well. All of a forgiven but not forgotten
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