Feeling some type of way

So me and my bf just moved in an apartment in a different state. We have only been here for 4 days and I already had an accident. Which wasn’t my fault another car was double parked, the lady was already in her parking spot, her car was parked next thing I know I hear this big boom noise and felt a bump. I got out and looked the lady had hit my car. She basically backed up into my car, now last time I checked you are supposed to look and check your surroundings. If she would have looked in her mirror she would have seen my car. In my mind it was no reason for this accident to occur. My two small kids who are 3 and 5 was in the car, they are crying and upset so I calmed them down. The lady walks up to me and says why am I in her way and then she says she didn’t see me. When she said why am I in her way, that pissed me off because you hit my brand

Me new car I only had it for a month and you scared my children and my vehicle was damage. So yeah I’m pissed and I did curse her out. It was a man in another car he said the same thing I said how did she hit your car. And asked was me and the kids ok. My bf was in the house I ring the door bell and I say this lady just hit my car. He comes out gets the kids. I have to move my car because it was in the way and I didn’t want anyone else to hit it but my tire was flat so I was scared to touch it. I told my bf to come park it, he snatches the keys tells me I’m getting on his nerves. He comes back in the house with the kids I go back outside. Then he texts me and tells me I can’t be arguing with people anything could have happened to me. Which made it worse because she hit my car and asked why I was in her way. She was in the parking spot already so I don’t get why she backed up anyways. I feel some type of way because he should be on my side your children were in the car. I feel like he should have been there to comfort me instead of making it worse. Instead he tells me in arguing with the new neighbors. Yes I did curse her out and yes I did apologize to her I kindly explained to her that I was mad that my kids was in the car and my car is damaged. After that we had a conversation and the cops came. I felt like that was human instinct to get mad. He still has an attitude with me and it’s the next day. Am I wrong for feeling some type of way.