Something wrong with me

So I've had one other partner and my husband has only had me. With my other partner he never made me orgasm but figured out I could squirt. My husband now has never made me orgasm either or squirt. Honestly the only way I ever have orgasmed, is by my vibrator or my finger. I didn't really orgasm until later on in life unfortunately (maybe in my low 20s, 27 now) so I'm not really "experienced"

It almost feels weird to me to have both penetration and clit stimulation, maybe because I'm just so used to masterbating?

My husband tries so hard when he goes down on me and he wants to try and learn. Even when he uses my vibrator it doesn't feel right then I'm just in my head and can't reach it. I feel like its my fault that I can only orgasm by myself...

Any advise?