What else can I do..?

I’m at my wits end when it comes to my sex life. I’m so frustrated I just want to scream!!! I don’t think I could possibly be more dissatisfied.

We’ve been together about two years. Our sex life was great until I got pregnant 6 months ago. I understand life happens, honeymoon stage fades etc. A lot of my frustration comes from asking for things I want and getting ignored. Although, the last 6 months has been especially frustrating for me. Me asking for things I want in bed and him blatantly ignoring them has been an issue our entire relationship.

He shows little to no interest in anything sexual- unless he’s getting his Dick sucked. Mind you, I hear about it if I go too long without blowing him. I ask him to go down on me, he won’t. (When we first started dating he would go down on me and told me it was one of his favorite things to do) Ask him to finger me, he won’t. Tell him I’d like to be more adventurous in bed. Still, all I get (when we do have sex) is me on top. I don’t cum anymore and he’ll make a couple snide comments about how he ‘must not do it for me anymore’. I get zero foreplay leading up to sex... he just sticks it in.

I have been very direct with him about the things I want/ need, things that are bothering me about our sex life. Nothing changes. I can’t help but feel like there is something wrong with me or he isn’t attracted to me anymore. Even though he repeatedly tells me that isn’t the case. I just don’t know what else to do. I’m at a loss.

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