Last night.. in the middle of sex.. my boyfriend says “I don’t think I want a kid”.

1. This is when you choose to say this?! Kill the mood much?

2. We discussed having kids before we even decided to start our relationship two years ago. It was agreed that we’d have at least one kid. I have always wanted two but he already has one and only wants one more. So we compromised and agreed that we can have the one and see how we feel after.

But now I don’t even know how to bring the topic up again. He has been being an ass towards me recently and does not care how I feel about anything. I don’t want it to turn into a problem because he will just get loud and have an attitude if I try to have any type of simple conversation with him.

It doesn’t hurt to mention that we have been TTC again. We had a miscarriage last year. So just have unprotected sex all of the time and then randomly state that he doesn’t want to have a kid. Then go back to unprotected sex again. He did this a month ago as well. Randomly flipped out on me and said he didn’t want to have kids and then initiated unprotected sex again.