Shamed for not doing BLW

I never thought I would experience this, but my family is literally shaming me for not doing baby led weaning!

I’ve tried toast with toppings and eggs and noodles, but she’s just not interested in eating it, she chews and spits it out. I’m also super nervous about her choking!

I still offer them to her for sensory play, but she just prefers purées!

She’ll be 8 months next week and my family makes fun of me and makes me feel bad for not just offering her any food that I’m eating.

Whenever we’re over at my moms house, they ask if they can give her food and it just makes me uncomfortable and they tell me I’m being too worried.

Are they right? Should I be offering her more real foods?