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I think you're both over-reacting. It was a mistake, my GPS takes me to the wrong place often.
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So, I was supposed to have a checkup with my obgyn today. Hubby is off on Wednesdays, so he was coming along as well. He knows the area of my doctors office because he works in the same area! So, halfway there... he decides to put my doctors office in his gps... well he says oh, it's taking me a different way. Never been this way. Says it's 17 minutes away. I said that doesn't sound right. But, being 16 almost 17 weeks pregnant. I was like huh? Then when it takes us out if the way, he looks and realizes the GPS is taking us to a different location! I told him I knew it was wrong. Well, I called my doctors office to let them know what happened and they had to reschedule me!!! I'm all emotional and upset! My husband has the audacity to turn it around on me! Asks why I didn't check his phone if I knew it was wrong!? He's upset at me because I started to cry. Says I can't act like an adult. I know I'm far from perfect, but I hate how he gets in a heated situation with me! He's probably mad at himself for messing up... but why must he blame me!?! Now we're giving each other the silent treatment. I hate this!!! What do you guys think?
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Lu
Also I'm not saying this is all your fault, hence my original comment that you're both over-reacting. It was a mistake at the end of the day.
Lu
There's nothing wrong with double checking if you had doubts. Instead you just left it, knowing it didn't sound right, then got angry at him when you had the opportunity to correct the mistake beforehand. I'm going to agree with him. If my husband does or says something that doesn't seem right, I bring it up before it turns into a big issue.
An
Yes, of course he's allowed to have his feelings. But, he said in the car he wanted me to admit I'm wrong for not checking his phone.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Neither of you did it on purpose and I can understand having to wait for another appointment to check on your baby. This happened to my husband and I, 2 weeks ago, I was also going to a Dr's appointment( not pregnancy related) my husband put the address on his phone, it said eta, 10 minutes when I know its at least 15-20 minutes, but my husband assured me that it's just no traffic, well then it took us to a mall, that we were just at last night. But luckily for me I always leave earlier to get to my appointment like 15 mins earlier so that helped. But it's not your fault. Just give him and yourself some time to cool off and talk about it later. Hope you feel better. Good luck🍀🤍❤
Sa
NP. Try your best not to stress. I know easier said. But hopefully everything will work out for the best!! Take care💕
An
Thank you so much!
Yoooo lmao this is frustrating and funny at its finest. I literally be blaming my husband for everything haha like why didn’t he read my mind type shit or remember a few months ago where the place was, what I always get from my favorite places to eat, thinking of me when I’m thinking of him all day at work and not text me about. Honestly he shouldn’t have blamed you but I know us girls especially with pregnancy hormones raving through our blood, any thing that doesn’t go our way, makes us upset. I’m like a bigger brat being pregnant and my husband just had to deal with it 😭😂🥰
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