Sexual drive

I feel like I’m the only one but yet I know I’m not the only one…. I hope.

For the longest time I’ve never really been a sexual person. Now do I find things sexy and get horny? Yes! But anyway I’ve been married to my husband for almost 2 years been together for 4. I told him right off the bat that I was not a sexual person like sex is not something I think of doing all the time. So we played around with each other for awhile and we had a sex a few times and clearly I had a baby lol. But ever since then and like I said even before I just don’t feel like having sex. Mainly because well my daughter co-sleeps with us so that is one problem (mind you I have tried to get her in her own crib but it hasn’t worked yet). I do get horny and I do think about having sex with him and doing other things. My mom and sister just feel like I need to see a doctor or something because maybe the way my husband feels about himself is because he doesn’t think I think he’s attractive and I do. I’ve told him this too. It’s so hard to talk to anybody because no one gets it . Everyone thinks I need to be this huge sexual person. Idk if we need to spice it up and try new things or not I mean I get awkward when sexual things happen. I don’t know.. I just had to vent and hear opinions.