Fathers Day🤦🏾‍♀️

So was I supposed to ask my son’s dad/SO what he wanted for fathers Day. Its my first official one and I’m still learning and stuff. But I bought him the new airpods and he told me thank you but that he didn’t want them because he doesn’t talk on the phone much🥲😞 idk. I also bought him a nice duffle bag and wallet but i ordered it online and it hasn’t came yet… idk if i even want to give it.. idk like🤦🏾‍♀️ i shoulda been a roach or something