Should I reach out?

I’m going back home for the first time in 1.5 years! I have two friends who I’ve kinda fallen out of touch with.

One was my friend of 10years, she stopped talking to me after my wedding, and after acting horribly throughout my entire wedding and events leading up to it.

She did however send me a box of diapers and a book when she found out I was pregnant which was nice but we have not communicated for probably a year.

She was my best friend so it’s hard to just let that be without having like a closure conversation you know? It’s just weird but idk if it’s even worth my time to bother getting that convo since it’s not like we would be seeing each other a lot, we have lived in different states for 7years.

My other friend was also one of my bridesmaids, we never really hung out much but we had such a great time together, went through school together and our externship together. I haven’t seen her since my baby shower last December pre Covid and she’s always been such a good friend.

Her husband kind of came after me on Instagram, we had a small discussion where he was clearly mad and basically calling me an idiot, I responded but made sure it was not in an aggressive, negative way whatsoever because of my friendship with his wife. I was shocked by his response and after that my friend has not spoken to me. She’s never told me if that bothered her, I’ve never brought it up. But I can tell the relationships changed and it sucks.... especially because her husband came at me, but I feel like since I defended myself maybe she found that as disloyal?

I haven’t spoken to her since April when I found out she was pregnant again, i mentioned at that time we may be coming back home in June. She said she might be out of town so she didn’t know.

Do I bother reaching out to people who were once my close friends thats j miss?? Or do I let it go since the likely hood of me seeing them is maybe once a year?

Thanks for the help!