I need advice...

Im a sahm. I have a 5 month old. I get little to no help from husband even on his off days.

So sex is the last thing in my mind alot of the time tbh.. I feel like im failing as a wife... My husband gets mad if i dont want sex or to give him a bj...

Like to the point he barely talks to me and even short texts me...

Like i said i feel like im killing it as a mother but failing as a wife...

Any advice?