All housework cause I am a SAHM

I get it I don’t work a full time job. But I am super tired. I have an 18 month old. (I know others have waaaaay more on their plate). I have a full house and no help. I don’t have siblings to help me. I have a MIL and mother that are elderly or busy with work. Also I am a full time ASU grad student.

I over heard my MIL and SIL once say, “this is her job, she doesn’t work. That’s her responsibility”

What they don’t see is me running around from 6am until 10 pm , then do university work online until 2 or until finish.

Because I snapped and told my husband to help me clean. Aka to take out the trash! Or bring down the laundry. Simple stuff. I do 97% of house work. Gardening, handy woman.. everything believe me ...

Do I not deserve a helping hand because I don’t bring in the financial aspect of our life? Or am I okay to ask for his help ? (He is a very kind man btw not like his family to much)

What do you think? Do I have some room to expect help with house stuff?