Miserable a$$ relationship

I tend to be a very outgoing, lovable, and just love to laugh. My current boyfriend has made me into a person I don’t even know. He works Wednesday-Sunday 4pm-3am and sleeps on his two days off and everyday until he has to work. He’s constantly accusing me of cheating and always telling me to shut up when I try and voice my opinion. He tells me he hates how I dress and I need to not wear tight clothes. I asked him could we go to the beach tomorrow on a date. He’s replaced he’s not going to no ghetto f***ing places pick someplace else. He tells me I have no real friends and expects me to sit in the house while he’s at work and do nothing. When he sleeps all day he want me to sit in the room with our 1 year old while the older kids just play in the house 🤧😩 I feel like I’m losing myself I keep asking him to make changes but he’s only getting worse. How do I get away from this I can’t take no more