I need advice please I’m begging

My husband and I have been together for 12 years. We have 4 children the oldest being 11 and the youngest 7 months. We have gone through all the ups and downs but I have always maintained our relationship. He went through a period of alcoholism and it nearly destroyed me as a person. I was unable to function because of how emotional damaged I was. He always put his family first and treated me like a evil step child. He got fried from his job before the pandemic started in 2020 and I have been holding everything down financially since then even with being pregnant it was the most stressful pregnancy. He started smoking weed mid last year and stopped drinking which I can’t lie I was happy about because the drinking was killing me but the smoking got bad. He started acting weird. We recently moved 25 hours away from the only home we knew and loved and he still refuses to work I’ve been so stressed out. He promised that this move was going to be the final move and he wasn’t going to allow me to struggle alone anymore. After all that he is talking about moving yet again which I refuse to do. Now he has started drinking again I’m so confused and scared. We have been in the new state 4 months and he is literally requiring us to move again or he will not work. Im happy here. I’m so tired only thing I need him for is to watch our kids so I can work. I don’t even love him anymore but I feel bad for that because my kids deserve 2 parents.