I feel like my best friend is getting lost in being a mom

My best friend is a lesbian and has a wife. Her and her wife really wanted to have a baby so they got a sperm donor. I'm honestly surprised her wife was the one who carried the baby because my best friend is more fem and her wife just seems more tom boy. She's honestly become so boring. I was scared having a baby would make her boring. She's always wanting to show me her and her wife's ultrasound and I've told her several times I don't wanna see her fucking ultrasound. Then she is on her wife's beck and call. If we are hanging out het wife is calling her bitching "Babe I'm hungry" "Babe I have hemorrhoids" "Babe can you bring me tums". Like people get pregnant all the time. Sis its not that serious! And she will leave what we are doing to go get het wife some food. Her wife is 32 weeks pregnant now and I asked if they were coming to my forth of July party and she said "Idk. Lesley is pretty swollen". Then come without Lesley fuck. I don't care about my friends damn baby. I had told her not to go through with this shit anyway because becoming a parent and basically kissing your life good bye and that's what she did. I'm her best friend and was there before Lesley but she will abandon me just because Lesley is having "pains". I want my friend back. I always wanted us to be single besties forever but then she gets fucking married and now she's having a kid. We actually made a deal when we were 16 that we wouldn't have kids. So when she told me they were having a baby I'm assuming Lesley put her up to this because we agreed no kids. I'm sick of her wife and this baby. I just want my bitch back.