How to stop comparing myself to other women?

Question

I keep constantly getting jealous of other women and compare myself. How do I stop? I just want to accept my own beauty and not worry if my bf will like someone else. I keep wondering what his exes look like and why they broke up. 
I don’t want to be like this anymore. I don’t know if I should blame my childhood for being isolated from peers and teased. I don’t have money for a therapist at the moment because my school health center isn’t available in summer. I’m so stuck and don’t know who to talk to. I don’t want to bother my bf about my crap. I keep trying to make myself “beautiful”. I feel like my personality sucks. Help please?

Answer

Learn to love yourself. Take care of you! Treat yourself to a pamper night, buy yourself something new to wear, get a new hairstyle, find something you enjoy doing and put your all into it, exercise will male you feel good about yourself, and lastly..write a lost of all the things youd like to achieve and work on those. Cut out any negativity, as soon as you learn to love yourself your happiness will all just fall into place

Answer

I’m going through something similar. What I did was delete all my social media (except this), so I could avoid comparing myself to others. I also have talked to my partner about this, it’s important to talk to your person so you have someone there for you. Now I’ll be clear, this doesn’t mean that you should take insecurity out on them or just constantly talk about insecurities, it can get overwhelming for the other person.

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Hype yourself up! Stop thinking of the negatives and find the positives. It can be uncomfortable, but just look in the mirror and think of all the wonderful things you have. There are things you you have that might make you self conscious, but those may be things that people are envious of. There Things that are unique to you that others will never have and they will go out of their way to acquire them. Instead of comparing yourself to others, find the things about you that other people envy. Or find a reason as to why someone may envy it. 
I used to hate my freckles, but then i realized they’re super unique. No one has any like mine. People get tattoos or spend time doing make up to replicate them, but I don’t have to do that. The stretch marks on my butt and thighs are because I’m thick. I have an ass and thighs. People spend years exercising or get surgeries and stuff to have a butt like mine and I didn’t have to do anything for it. The stretch marks prove that. They’re natural.  People choose to dye their hair my color. But I’ve never had to. Because it’s perfect for me. 
Sometimes you gotta just be cocky and give yourself that boost. treat yourself with the same grace you’d treat someone else with. If one of your friends came to you and said “I hate this thing about me.” Would you be like “yeah your right it’s awful” or would you be like “it’s fine, if you don’t like it you can change it. And if you can’t change it it’s what makes you, you!”

How to stop comparing myself to other women?

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