Im confused and feel like i need to choose both

So my son is 9 months old. And my boyfriends family is catholic and my family is Christian… well my mom wants me to dedicate him christian side and my boyfriends mom wants me to baptize him… so i dont know!!!! Idk if i can do both… i just dont want the other person to be mad at me … what should i do?!!!! I told them idk if i wanna even do either one cuz im getting stresssed out .