Need some advice on relationship

Okay so my boyfriend recently bought a house recently. We didn’t do it together since I’m already in student loan debt(like major major debt) but that’s another story and he knows my financial situation.

Anyway, we’ve been fixing up the house and it is closer to where his parents live which is fine by me. I live with my parents about 40 minutes away. I am due to move in soon, just have been moving stuff over slowly.

I get along with his family and they are super nice. However, each weekend his parents come over a lot which is totally fine because they are helping out usually and they live so close so why not? However the last several weekends they’ve been over for dinner a lot like on Saturday, then we play on a dodgeball league with them on Sunday then went out to lunch with them, and I’m not really feeling a lot of quality time between me and my boyfriend. Like I said we only get the weekends together and I haven’t spent a ton of one on one time with him. I would love to just sit out on the deck with him and have a dinner alone with him at some point. We’ve sat out on the deck but his family is always there.

Trust me, I’m a family girl and I’m not saying he can never see them, but I just didn’t realize they would be over all the time. I finally suggested me and him just go out to dinner and I was so happy. I finally had some one on one time but I’ve been feeling like an after thought. Or his family is looking at this house as a place to hangout.

I should also mention my boyfriend and I talk about marriage, me moving in, kids, etc etc etc so it’s a seriously long term relationship, we’ve been together over 2 years and are in our late 20s. I’m not trying to be controlling and I don’t want to come off controlling but I only get the weekends as we don’t live together yet but that will change soon and I just feel like I need some quality time as that’s my love language without his family coming over every weekend night for a cook out. They’re nice but I want to enjoy the new space with my boyfriend.

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