Could use encouragement

We just got our results from the embryologist. We had 21 eggs retrieved, 10 fertilized, and only 1 made it to blastocyst stage. We did opt for testing (although if I had known we’d only have 1, I would have opted not to) so it’s currently frozen and I have to somehow suck up the suck and start mentally and physically preparing for a FET that I HOPE I get to do. All while waiting to hear back on the Chromosome test results.

We are only 30 so I expected better results, but considering I’ve never been pregnant after 8 years and 12 IUIs it was pretty naive for me to think this was going to be way different.

Any words of wisdom or success stories???