I just have to vent y’all… 9 weeks 1 day

So I passed a huge clot this morning, I’m 9 weeks 1 day. Of course I start to freak and end up going to the ER. Everything has been fine up until this morning so I’m lost on what to think.. I showed the dr the picture of the clot/tissue I passed, he even agreed that it’s something to be worried about. But then the doctor has the nerve to tell me that I don’t have to come to the ER evertime I have some bleeding an that there is nothing they cant do if I was having a miscarriage.. like yes I know this. This isn’t my first rodeo. But maybe a little sympathy or caring would be nice, obviously I still want to know what’s going on. Also having blood pressure 171/117 which has never been that high before and they act like it’s nothing. Maybe overreacting but I’m fuming right now and officially hate this hospital.