Is this weird or am I over thinking it?

I was talking to this guy from tinder about 6 months ago and I realized I wasn’t ready to date anyone yet as things seemed to be going really fast between us. I told him I was feeling a little overwhelmed and that I just couldn’t be all in at the moment. We stopped talking for those 6 months but we kind of started talking and being flirty again yesterday and I agreed to going on a date. He also asked if I wanted to come over on Saturday and watch the fight and I said yes if our date goes well, I think that would be super fun! He started saying that if I come I have to make moves like sit with him and grab his hand and be touchy and stuff so his friends know I’m with him and won’t try and get with me. I just felt so weird that he’s setting expectations and telling me how to act when I am with him and his friends. I’ve never met any of them and I’ve only met this man one time. Is this weird to anyone else? He also keeps “jokingly” saying that I ghosted him 6 months ago. I did not ghost him. I respectfully told him I wasn’t ready for what he wanted at that moment.