I am engaged to my long term partner but since proposing he has threatened to break up with me?

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I don’t know what to do?

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If that happened to me I’ll tell him “ if that’s what you want then go, I don’t need you, I lived enough without you and I can continue my life perfectly with you being with me” 
If this is the beginning what’s gonna happen later!

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Call his bluff tell him to go right ahead and end it 
And if he didn’t do it I would 
Why would you want to be with someone that threatens to break up with you

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What was the reasoning first of all. Second of all I would say “marriage is a life long commitment. If I am marrying someone it’s for good it’s not just some boyfriend/girlfriend relationship you can just throw away. If you aren’t ready for that kind of commitment we should hold off on the wedding until you are certain of what you want and willing to make that commitment” My husband and I have never threatened a break up in our 6 years of being together. We don’t believe in divorce (unless of course you are in an abusive relationship or if something extremely crazy happens) we work through our arguments and understand that our marriage is forever not just something we can throw away. It takes a lot work, patience, trust, faithfulness, forgiveness, and communication. It sounds like he isn’t mature enough or ready for marriage quite yet. Not to say he won’t be… just sounds like he needs to do some thinking and work on himself before you marry him.

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Tell him to go ahead then next time he threatens you

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Break up. Unfortunately marriage isn’t a cute fit anything. Pump the breaks and take a step back before going forward

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Does anyone know why someone would threaten to break up with you?

I am engaged to my long term partner but since proposing he has threatened to break up with me?

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