Would you do it?

Question

So I have 2 baby girls and I’m considering having another one, one day not yet they both are sooo young still. They are 14 months apart. I’m honestly not sure how I feel about another one I want one but then I don’t. I want a son so bad but I know it’ll probably be another girl. I love my girls but want a son. We just moved in our house and have 3 bedrooms. One room for me and my husband, one playroom and the 3 rd bedroom is the girls room. We thought they can share a room till they’re old enough to want their own room. I just feel bad if we have another baby 2 will have to share. I hated sharing a room so I’m scared they will hate me for having another one day. Would you just not have any more or would you have more? I’m just stuck in between in what to do.

Answer

If you feel strongly about them having their own rooms, then it sounds like you should stick with two kids.

Answer

I shared a room with my little sister until I was 13 and she was 11 and she’s literally my best friend 🤷🏻‍♀️ we never got mad that we had to share. if you want another child and you can afford it I don’t see why not.

Answer

I don't think it's too little space 2 rooms for 3 kids. They can have a playromm and share bedroom. They can switch every 2 years so that everyone gets a bedroom for themselves. It can be fun and good experience.
For me would be important
- do you want to have another child?
- do you have time (can you spend time with kids)?
- do you think you can bring up a good person?
And that's enough 🙂

Answer

I think it’s selfish to want more kids if you don’t have the space , I grew up having to share everything and I would never do that to my kids

Answer

Sharing isn't a bad thing, great life skill to have!! 😄 shared with my siblings all my life until the older ones started moving out when i was a late teen! Even then my brother (2 years younger) would often come to my room and just chat/seek advice for hours! Best memories 🥰

Answer

So this is interesting to me. Had four kids two years ago and moved into a five bedroom house. All the kids would have their own rooms and one for my husband and I of course. Well when we moved in my kids all said they didn’t want their own room. They were scared of the dark abs being alone in a big room. So we only used 3 of the bedrooms as bedrooms. One as a playroom and the other was for storage/guest room. During that time my oldest started to develop(female child-started wearing bras) we tried to move her into her own room and after two weeks she demanded she wanted her sister in there. 🙄 my point is with young kids they may not want to be alone even if you think you need all that space. 
Fast forward to now. We moved abs we now have a 4 bedroom house and have 5 kids now. We again asked the kid house they wanted to be. My son has been begging for my brother for years so he wants our youngest with him(a male child). My other three kids are female abs they all wanted to share a room 😳. We have them that and they absolutely love it. So we have another playroom/guest room. You want to have another then focus on the reason why and if they seem good enough to you then go for it when you are ready. My kids have asked me to have another baby I just make this face 😳. (We move a lot cause we are a military family and they only go to 5 bedrooms max on post)

Answer

I personally wouldn’t want to have 3 kids in a small house but you do what feels best for you and your family

Answer

I don’t see anything wrong with sharing a room. 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s not the end of the world plus play rooms are not necessary.

Answer

The question to answer is: do you want another girl? If yes or you don't mind it than it's no problem whether or not it's boy or girl.
I Come from a family of 5 kids. Always shared a room until I moved out at 19. Never had a problem with it and good friends with all my brothers and sisters. My brother did not like sharing a room with my other brother and hated it due to no privacy.
I think if the room is large enough to make two private places where both can do their homework or own stuff. It should not be a problem.

Answer

I’m having my third daughter later this year. We own a two bedroom house and don’t plan on moving in the near future, so all three of my girls will share a bedroom 🤷‍♀️ I wouldn’t let something like having to make two share keep you from having another. Just think about the pros and cons and when ur ready try for another if you decide to.

Would you do it?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products