Husband was excluded

Ok so my dad has 3 brothers. Everytime one of the brothers turns 60, they all go to a baseball game together, it’s like their brother tradition. So my uncle is turning 60 this year, so they all planned the game, and they invited my brother (it’s usually just my uncles and dad that go)

So my husband wasn’t invited, and we were at a bbq at my moms and they were talking about the game. My husband was upset that he wasn’t invited, understandably so, so I was like what the fuck to my parents. They thought my husband was joking around about being upset, and I was like no seriously why wasn’t he invited. And my dad was like well he doesn’t like baseball- which is true, he doesn’t like baseball, but still like he is part of the family and should have at least had to offer extended. So my husband is really sad.

We were on the way home and I kept apologizing, saying I understood why he was upset. I was like I sympathize, like your sister and cousin do stuff together all the time, brunches, and Botox parties and I’ve never been included, and it has hurt my feelings, when I see the pictures on Facebook, so I get why he’s upset. I probably shouldn’t have said that, because it’s not about me, but I was only saying it to let him know like yeah I get the feeling of being left out.

So he went off on me when we got home, said some horrible things about family, told me to fuck off and not to talk to him for the rest of the night, yelled at me a bit more, now I’m hiding in the bathroom. I’m so upset, and it like turned into a big huge thing, my dad is mad at my mom, because it was my moms idea to invite my brother, and my husband is mad at everyone including me. My husband is not talking to my dad, wouldn’t even say bye to him when he left, so I am pretty sure he’s done with him, and now he’s not talking to me either.

I really don’t know how to fix this, but would really love some advice. My husband is furious with me (I didn’t know about the game until tonight) and I just don’t want everyone fighting.